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New Years Resolutions To Help Aging Parents

December 30, 2021

New Year’s Resolutions List

Adult child worried about aging parents during holidays visit

 

 

 

Do you make New Year’s resolutions? Here are some RESOLUTIONS TO HELP AGING PARENTS.  It’s not “go on a diet,” because you ate some much holiday fare but what you should do after the holiday when you spotted red flags that made you worry about your aging mom or dad. Here is the entire list of New Year’s resolutions to help your aging parents you might make for January as an adult child worried about aging parents after the holiday visit.

Adult child worried about aging parents after holidays visit

 

 

 

 

RESOLUTIONS TO HELP AGING PARENTS

Adult Child Helping Senior aging mom with Finances

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

➢ Accompany the elderly person to the doctor, and talk to the doctor in person.

➢ Gather legal financial and insurance paperwork, and meet with professionals.
➢ Have all mail forwarded to yourself or another relative who will manage it
➢ Contact and meet with old and present friends.
➢ If your older family members are in a facility, make contact with staff that cares for them, and the ombudsman.
➢ Meet with your elderly relative’s support network.                   

➢ Meet with a geriatric care manager who can do all this for you
DO YOU THINK THIS RESOLUTION TO HELP AGING PARENTS IS TOO EXPENSIVE?

Care Manager helping an older person 

TEN REASONS YOU CAN AFFORD A GERIATRIC CARE MANAGER

The Top Ten Reasons Why You Can Afford A Geriatric Care Manager by Phyllis Brostoff

10. We can do in 2 hours what it would take you 2 weeks to do.

9. We know how to get around that “I’m saving for a rainy day” syndrome when your folks are drowning in their problems.

8. We’re much cheaper than the cost of plane fare if you have to fly into town when your parents say “everything is fine” but you know it isn’t.

7. We can give you the scoop on which nursing home is really right for your parents.

6. We can make your parents hear what you have said over and over again, but they refuse to listen to them, you are still a child.

5. We can tell you’re annoying siblings to shut up, but graciously.

4. We’ve helped hundreds of families a lot worse than yours.

3. Your dad can’t push our buttons.

2. Next time you want to hang up on your mother, you can tell her to call us.

1. We’re available 24/7, so you don’t have to be. Just find us here

If you are a care manager check out my latest  free webinar on clinical skills to solve aging family problems post-holidays 

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Aging Dysfunctional Concierge Family Calls During Holiday- Can You Sign Them Up As Clients?

November 5, 2017

 

More than half of the aging families who call you inquiring about services during the holidays, starting with “Turkey Day” will be dysfunctional families. The great majority of calls will come from adult children. If you want to make the sale during the inquiry you have to know how to handle these dysfunctional family members on the phone and give them enough trust in you to sign your contract and give you a deposit for your services.

So when they call inquiring about your services you must identify them in the beginning of the inquiry call.

Signs to look for when they describe the problem

  • History of Divorce or cut off
  • Stepsiblings
  • Blaming the aging parent or siblings
  • Old conflicts with the parent or siblings
  • Unable to agree or work with other family members

If you have dysfunctional family members calling, do not disagree with them or say anything that they may read as critical. They are ultra-sensitive to criticism, may become defensive and are easily disappointed. Be objective and calm if they have intense emotional reactions.

Most of all give them hope that you can solve the problems with their parent but do not promise anything you cannot deliver. You risk never getting the case.

 

Learn the 2-part inquiry using a complimentary consultation to make the sale to the needy yet always dissatisfied entitled / concierge family

Master the 10 tasks in holding a family meeting during a holiday crisis with adult siblings and family during the frightful, not festive family chaos

Understand 5 tools necessary to work with long distance concierge and entitled families in a parent care crisis over their thankless Thanksgiving and blue, blue Christmas or Hanukah

Join me for this free webinar and learn how to come to the rescue of Concierge Entitled families who find coal in their stockings. 

Wednesday, November 8  @11am Pacific Time

2pm CST/ 4pm EST / 8pm LONDON / 5am SYDNEY   (Find your local time)   

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