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Dysfunctional Aging Families Can Wreak Havoc at End of Life

December 6, 2022

What do Feuding families do at the end of life?

 

When a family member is facing death and dying dysfunctional families have flawed conversations. Often they do not communicate at all or engage in destructive banter. They see one another as enemies. They demonize one another.

Feuding families are what I call dysfunctional families. They blame each other instead of locking arms in a crisis.

They sabotage resolution.

They actively compound already difficult decisions with intractable, interpersonal conflict. They create problems independent of the underlying issues.

Facing Fractured Communication

What are some of the struggles that these aging dysfunctional families with fractured communication can face?

Aging parents who lack the capacity to make decisions have no advance directives, DPOA and a

health-care proxy, and adult siblings, who must make end of life decisions, can’t agree

Withdrawal of life support with no designated health care agent and adult children and/or spouse disagree

Pain management adult children and/or and spouse disagree.

Answer to Fractured Family at End of Life – Mediation.

Mediation is a tool that can be a good resource for dysfunctional families at the end of life. It can help with these difficult families face the death of a parent without fracturing the entire family. It can allow an older person to die without pain inflicted by their own family.

 

Deliver a Good End of Life- Add Death and Dying to Your Care Management Agency

 

Serve Your Client Until Death Do You Part

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Deliver a Good End of Life 9 Steps to Death &Dying

Jan 24, 2023 02:00 PM Pacific Time (US and Canada)

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Deliver a Good End of Life- 9 Steps to Add Death and Dying to Your Care Management Agency
Serve Your Client until Death Do You Part
Join me on January 24 2023 and learn why End of Life Services re a perfect new service for care managers
 Learn to guide the patient/family through the five stages of death. Understand how to help clients be active participants in their care. Give the family caregivers tools to manage care. Find out how to provide family-centered care to caregivers and family. Learn to choose the right support services for the client through all stages of death.
Introduce Hospice and Palliative care to the client earlier and work with their team.
Find out how Use COVID -19 family coaching for GCM. Discover the role of Death Doula at end of life.

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Jan 24, 2023 02:00 PM Pacific Time (US and Canada)

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Join me Thursday, March 11, and learn why End of Life Services Are a perfect new service for care managers

 In this 1 ½ -hour webinar you will learn how to

 1. Transition the patient/family through the five stages of death

2. Help clients be active participants in their care

3. Give the family/caregiver tools to manage care

4. Provide family center care to caregivers and family

5. Choose the right support services through all stages of death

6. Introduce Hospice and Palliative care and work with their team

7. Use ALCA End-of-Life Benefits During COVID

8.Use  COVID -19  Family Coaching for GCM

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If you really want to add End of Life to your care management business sign up for this webinar now

 

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Ten Warning Signs You Are Working With a Dysfunctional Family

November 3, 2022

Working with Dysfunctional Family

Ten Warning Signs you are Working with Dysfunctional Family represents critical information to share with long-distance caregivers before their holiday visit. Do you know them? They include contentiousness, anger, and cut off and all are listed below. These clinical issues give the visiting caregiver signs that they need to call a care manager and you the care manager the most challenging job of an aging professional. What you have to know is family system theory and be clinically skilled in entering this treacherous family system – to get care for an older person

1. Contentiousness – Old fights erupt; the siblings and parents get into arguments with one another about an old issue

2. Anger – Siblings and family members express physical anger, emotional abuse, financial abuse

3. Distancing & cut off – Some siblings or parents have nothing to do with family and may not speak to parents or siblings for long periods of time.

Ten Warning Signs You are Working with the  Dysfunctional Family – Fusion, Denial, Triangulation, Entitlement

4. Fusion – Siblings and family members, such as the mother and eldest daughter, blend into one another, For example, the daughter sounds, acts, and has the same prejudices as the mother. . Think of the media’s portrayal of Lindsay Lohan and her mother.

5. Denial – Adult siblings do not see a decline in a parent, do not face reality, and do not take care of parent if he or she needs care.                           

6. Triangulation – Tension between two family members or siblings causes one to enlist a third family member or sibling to avoid change For example, two adult sibling object to the cost of care of an aging parent. They gang up on the third adult sibling who thinks the cost of care is reasonable and justified.

7. Sense of Entitlement – Siblings who are accustomed to purchasing services need not personally solve their own, children’s siblings or parents’ problems. This lack of engagement leaves them, unprepared and unwilling in getting involved in solving family tribulations.

Ten Warning Signs You Are Working with a Dysfunctional Family – Narcissism, Needy Adult Siblings, Substance Abuse, and Cut Off

8. Narcissism – One or more siblings has an “it’s all about me” attitude and

other siblings resent this. The self-absorbed sibling either does not participate

9. Needy Adult Siblings – These adult siblings feel starved for affection and often seek affection from professionals and other people in their lives for compensation for the care they didn’t receive as children.

10 . Substance and Other Abuse – The family and siblings have a history of drug, alcohol, and/or child abuse.

If this fits you you and your aging parent needs care may need to contact a geriatric care manager.

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Get Ready for the Holiday Rush

Get Ready for the Holiday Rush

WEDNESDAY, November 16th, 2022, FROM 2 PM – 3:30 PM PST

 Learn how to create!

  • Pre-Holiday Social media campaigns to reach worried caregivers
  • Pre- Holiday-Materials about the warning signs that a parent needs help
  • Pre-Holiday Marketing to help you sign up families who might face a serious decline in aging parents
  • How to sell services to desperate post-holiday callers from Normal dysfunctional & long-distance family
  • How to use tools to contain holiday chaos & arrange care in festive family fright
  • How to move the family to New Year’s stability
  • Know The Ten Warning Signs you are working with a dysfunctional family and position Your Agency ahead of Care Managers who do not have great pre-holiday marketing campaigns and lack the clinical skills how to work with Adult Children and families during the chaotic aging family holiday visit when adult kids find their aging parents need care
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Last Day to Sign Up Webinar -Sell Benefits Not Features to Wealth Managers

September 26, 2022

 Sell Benefits, not Features to Wealth Managers to Grow Your$ Bottom Line

Sell benefits not features to wealth manager is a key to great marketing. Do you know how you do that? &When you market Geriatric care management, what makes the sales is ” What’s in it for me the 3rd party. “Benefits answer that question for your targets. Learn how to make a great marketing presentation and sale to 3rd parties, like wealth managers, elder law attorneys, Assisted Living Directors, Trust Departments, and Concierge Physicians by understanding the benefits geriatric care management brings to each and the rest of your target audiences.

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Managing Entitled Clients Like Donald Trump at Mar a lago in 10 Steps

September 8, 2022

Managing ENTITLED CLIENTS

Managing entitled clients is something every care manager needs to do skillfully. How Do You deliver and serve long-term clients from the top 10% financially- who can offer sustainable financial growth to your Aging Life or GCM company? Then how do you manage these difficult clients who are often referred by wealth managers? 

 

You offer superior professional  Gold Standard Concierge Service to Clients and the Family- Care they demand and their wealth managers expect

 

 You offer preventative care to avoid crises and chaos that can they often enjoy -Helping Keep Clients Out of E rooms and nursing homes and keep them at home where they wish to be and you from losing the case.

You write or rewrite your business plan that has a value proposition in your marketing plan to reach your target markets to concierge clients in the upper 10% and the third parties who in many cases serve them as well like  wealth managers  

10 CARE AND FEEDING TIPS TO KEEP ENTITLED CLIENTS LONG TERM 

  1. Deliver gold standard concierge service
  2. Offer confidential services that clients and families can trust
  3. Do not have the VIP syndrome  with these sometimes famous clients
  4. Serve the whole aging family where adult children are entitled and difficult as well.
  5. Provide a GPS through health care needs so that the best care is delivered seamlessly
  6. Have a full GCM toolbox and know all community resources –to change tools as client change and age safely in place
  7. Refer or provide skilled background-checked home care aides who meet the need of entitled clients
  8. Be willing and skilled enough to accept difficult entitled clients who are narcissistic, demanding, and unreasonable like Donald Trump, Sumner Redstone, Huguette Clark 
  9. Have someone on your staff who has a clinical background in dysfunctional aging families, and psychodynamic diagnosis, and understands undue influence 
  10. Have upscale resources in your resource database like private drivers, private chefs, car services, upscale golf clubs that cater to older clients, and upscale assisted living

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Managing Entitled Clients

 

 Learn how to sell your services to the gatekeepers to the clients who can pay privately for long periods of time, when you deliver your gold standard care management services.

Wealth managers and trust officers will refer their VIP clients to you if you can sell care management benefits and features to their entitled clients,

 bring the right handouts and, do the perfect presentation with the winning pitch

When September 27th 2-3:30 PM Pacific

What you will learn


  • Why market to wealth managers and trust departments
  • The benefits and features GCM offers to wealth managers
  • Who are top wealth managers
  • How do you find them, set up a meeting, what to bring, what to present with the perfect pitch

Interview with GCM Patrice Harrison who works with trusts – what they want in a GCM

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2 Days left to Register 4 Webinar On Care Management -Content Marketing

July 3, 2022

Spread The Word About Your Services Let an expert on ALCA or GCM Technology teach you-Content Marketing

 

 

Do you need an expert ALCA or GCM  technology? Do you need to amp up your marketing through social media and content marketing’s torque on steroids? Great social media and content marketing  will do that for your care management or care-managed homecare agency- getting  overwhelming clicks&, opens, and new clients

 

 

WHAT IS Content Marketing ?

What is Content Marketing? Technology expert Natasha Beauchamp in my interview with her for my newest webinar on Technology this coming July 5th, says  it’s for care managers “who hate marketing. “Rather than say ” buy my great service” you show your “expertise in care management”  through the content of your videos, blogs, and social media posts.

expert ALCA or GCM  technology

Natasha Beauchamp   Let an expert on ALCA or GCM  technology teach you Content Marketing and care management technology expert will be joining me on my new webinar on July 5, 2022 to teach you Content Marketing. Experienced care managers will tell you that June and July phones start ringing. Families have come back from summertime visits or family reunions with older relatives and are shocked to realize the decline in their parents’ health and or functioning. So you really need to solve their caregiver pain and their elderly parents’ or relative’s problems through their decline.

Why you need content marketing

A care management agency would be $$$wise to get ready and be very “discoverable” as these potential clients look for answers and call you and content marketing can give them answers

Join me for my Latest Webinar

Free Webinar on Why you need content marketing

 

Smart TECH Solutions to Wire Your Care Management Business for Profit

 

Hear the  4 Care management CEOs of GCM software tell you what are the features and benefits of their software

WHEN  Wednesday, July 5, 2022

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  • with 1-1 interviews with CEOs of major care management software platforms

What you need in a website

  • Why you need content marketing
  • How to shoot videos for your agency
  • How to shoot videos for your agency
  • What are easy-to-use social media sites
  • Critical software programs that make care management information flow
  • What you need in a website
  • with 1-1 interviews with CEOs of major care management software platforms
  • interview with Natasha Beauchamp on content marketing  forALCA members

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