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Why Long Distance Care Providers Can Afford $$$ Long Term Care

May 9, 2022

long-distance care providers flying to aging parent emergency

Long-Distance Care Providers Are in Top 10 % – Can Afford Private Pay Long Term Care.

An excellent article in the New York Times about long-distance care providers shows that the majority of long-distance care providers are in the top 10% and can afford care managers and home care. Family caregivers in the lower 90% of the economy who live very close to aging loved ones – can render direct parent care but have less income to afford home care or care management. Why- family care providers who live near their aging parents statistically have only a high school education and thus cannot afford private pay long-term care.

Families at a Distance Highly Educated, Have Higher Incomes

The reason adult children at a distance, can afford private pay long-term care, cited by the NYT article, is long-distance care providers,  remain devoted to being their parent’s family caregivers, even at a large cost to them mentally and physically because of distance. But they are in the top 10% economically because they have college and professional degrees and thus are much more likely to live much farther from their parents because of their professional employment.

They are a highly educated group with 70% reporting a college degree or graduate school. They are quite affluent: 50% reported an income of $75,000 or much higher. Eighty-five percent owned their own home. The majority were working: 62% full-time and 18% part-time.

This means they can afford to private pay for long-term care, compared to those with high school education, in part because they have more job opportunities in faraway big cities or states. The high school graduate’s income is less than a college-educated caregiver therefore they can rarely afford home care or care management or private pay long-term care.

Long-Distance Care Providers Become Desperate to Get Help From Private Pay Long Term Care

Long-distance care providers are flying or driving to both visit and care for an aging family member. But these far-away family caregivers become exhausted as care needs increase and become desperate for a solution, which is a care management and home care. These long-distance providers adult children usually understand that their parents are deteriorating with age and are savvy enough that they have researched options and already found you on the web ( a reason to have a great website).

Families at a Distance Pay up to $8000 a year or more Traveling to Aging Parents

Those caregivers who live between 1 and 3 hours from the care recipient report spend an average of $386 per month; those who live more than 3 hours away report a monthly expenditure of $674.So Long Distance care providers spend between an additional $4632 and $ 8088 a year in care . A care manager can do a caregiver assessment of the long-distance caregiver, allowing you to help them with the stress and expense of constant emergency travel, (Read Assessing and Supporting the Family Caregiver in Handbook of Geriatric Care Management, 4th edition.)

Marketing Phrases for Concierge Care ClientsWhat Can Care Managers and Private Duty Home Care Do for Long Distance Care Providers?

Care Managers can bring them vital tools for better sibling and family communication like technology that they can use, to help aging families from a distance . Recommending Family dashboards and communication platforms like Slack, Google Chat, and Microsoft Teams, among others, allow their family care team to work in a cohesive way. You as the care manager can arrange private duty homecare so when the long-distance care provider visits they can be ” Just Family”.

When emergencies occur the care manager can be at the home or hospital immediately, and judge whether the hospitalization warrants an emergency trip to family or friend emergency flight, by keeping long-distance caregivers informed, thus reducing stress, unnecessary travel, and loss of time at work or actually losing jobs ( Working With Long Distance Families: Tools the Care Manager Can use) Care Managers Working With the Aging Family

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Can’t See Aging Mom Easter, Passover-7 Ways to Make Her Feel U Are There

April 12, 2022

Can’t see Aging Mom on Easter or Passover

Can’t See Your Mom on Easter or Passover – Long Distance?

Can’t See your Mom on Passover or Easter as you are a long-distance care provider, what’s the best way to keep in touch with the long-distance elder if you can’t visit on coming  Passover or Easter.

Easy Low-Touch Non-Tech Ideas

photo of father and boy coloring Easter egg together as Can’t see Aging Mom on Easter or Passover

Use low touch—the old-fashioned communication elders grew up – the Post Office and telephone. If you can’t see Mom or Easter or Passover, send a card with a photo of your kids dying easter eggs. Older people came from a generation where cards and mail were really meaningful. It is easy and really touches elders who love opening the little personal mail they get, especially from family. These heritage links are a great way to support a far away elder. Non-tech, they cause no stress on their part. Even we boomers who walk haltingly through the tech world of 40 characters forget that connecting with a stamp or a call is so familiar to an older person. Plus you give that feeling of warmth they always got when they  “ opened” “ or “ answered” saw a real photo -something real (not virtual); Try having the whole family send a card even kids. A flooded mailbox on Easter or Passover fills their heart.

Let Mom or Dad Smell The Affection. Send Passover Easter in a box

Can’t see Mom or Dad on Passover or Easter but Dad or Mom, are not religious, mail holiday care packages —bake or buy cookies or small loaves of bread. Bake it with your children and send samples along with actual photos of everyone baking in the kitchen or buying treats.  Even if they crumble a bit, elders will smell the affection.

Easy Option -Holiday in a Box

Can’t see Mom on Passover or Easter, send a “ holiday in a box. Easter and Passover are coming up. Send a basket of kids’ drawings, candy, nuts, home-baked or purchased Easter Bread or cookies or Matzah that reflects the holiday celebration plus a gift certificate for an Easter brunch or dinner with a friend.  Give Mom joy in a simple package. For an extra special surprise, arrange an invitation to a Passover or Easter dinner with a friend or through your parents’ synagogue or church

Passover in a Box

For those adult children who are time-deprived, and can’t see Mom over the holidays, order Passover in a box on Amazon if you have little time and want to send something special. The same goes with Easter in a box with delicious Easter cookies.

A Little Help From Aging Parents Friends

Can’t see Aging Mom on Easter or Passover

Skip that holiday in a box, if you can’t see Mom on Passover or Easter you can create a circle of care . Get the app  Lots of Helping Hands through neighbors, friends, people in your elder’s place of worship, or a group they belong to. Then you can ask if they can arrange to include your older relative or friend in the Easter brunch, egg hunt or Passover meal. You will then have an entire support team your elder with a whole circle of support in the future and not feel so alone.

 

Make Aging Tech for Holiday Gift

Send Passover Easter in a box

Send a high-tech gift, if you can’t see Mom or Dad over Easter or Passover. Send a high-tech device that your loved one can really use and figure out. I just ordered the Esky Wireless Locator because I keep misplacing my glasses.

How Care Managers Help Get to Long Distance CarProviders

Care Managers can do lots of things for a family member who is long-distance and can’t see Mom on Easter or Passover. Julie Menack in her chapter “Long Distance Care Providers” in my book Care Managers Working With the Aging Family lists tasks long-distance care providers can do to make their own lives and their long-distance loved ones saner, sounder, and happier

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Deliver Valentine’s Gifts for Family Caregivers at the Last Minute

February 14, 2022

Last Minute Valentines’ gifts for family caregivers?

 

 Valentine’s gifts for family caregivers, who pay your bills for loving care is a great idea for care managers or home care agencies Here are ideas for the last minute as this is Valentines’ Day. What a geriatric care manager and home care does each day is about love.  Family caregivers who care for an aging family member represent the heart and soul of the love of Valentines’ Day.

Here are some ideas

last-minute Valentine caregiver gift

Valentine’s gifts for family caregivers are a sweet idea. It acknowledges their caring while letting them know your agency cares about them, the people who pay your bills. Using an email newsletter like constant contact with a valentine’s wish is easy and perfect Valentine’s. It will get there today.  Offering a special package of on-time-reduced fee hours to give thank them for using your agency maybe on valentine’s day itself or another time would be a sweet gift.

Another last-minute caregiver gift is the simple act of thanking them personally in a phone call, an email valentine for all they do at such a cost to themselves, which is rarely voiced.

 

Gifts For Aging Parent Caring for a Spouse

 Valentine’s gifts for family caregivers

To an aging parent caring for a spouse, they can experience most fraught-filled valentine’s day. The person who they gave all your heart to – at times for many decades- is there but not there in a way in many ways. So,  suggesting to siblings or close friends that they might take taking the family caregiver for dinner and provide respite to the spouse and taking her to a special valentine’s brunch or event- can make a perfect gift. This can be a soulful warm gift for someone spending time with the love of their life who is not able to share the romantic day anymore.

Caregiver Gifts From Adult Children

Give adult children ideas for last-minute Valentine caregiver gifts for valentine’s day. Grandchildren can also make inexpensive valentines gifts if she is caring for grandpa.

Be a gold standard care management agency on Valentine’s day and show love for your family caregivers in any way you can.

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Take This Test -Can You Take A Dysfunctional Family Case After the Holidays ?

December 20, 2021

Do You Have the Clinical Skills to Give Hope to  The  Dysfunctional  Family Calling Desperately On the Holidays –

What does it Take?

    1. Do you know the right caseload mix so you have the intense time to handle these very heavy care families?
    2. Do you have 5 years of geriatric care management practice, a master’s degree to understand and work with them??
    3. Do you have care managers who can work with these complex aging dysfunctional families?
    4. Do you have the business model to realign your caseload for many of these time-intensive cases?
    5. Do you know aging family dynamics or do you have a staff member who does
    6. Can you increase your staff to do this?
    7. Do You Know How to do a two call intake and complimentary consultation
    8. Do You know how to make the sale to dysfunctional aging clients
    9. Are you ready to be fired and have account receivable problems that come with these cases?
    10. Do you know how to answer the challenge the dysfunctional, needy demanding adult children face and the client’s needs at the same time?
    11. Do you know how to hold an impromptu family Dysfunctional meeting with adult children, over the hectic holiday to plan care for aging parents?
    12. Can you work with narcissistic entitled older clients who are very demanding
    13. Can you  emotionally handle the demeaning, blaming attitude of narcissistic old and new monied clients

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How to Help Avoid a Cat and Dog fight at a Dysfunctional Family Holiday -Thanksgiving

November 10, 2021

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Sparring Cats and Dogs AKA Siblings

The Dysfunctional family on a holiday especially after some holiday liquid cheer, sour step-parents, angry step-siblings, and mid-life adult kids who have grown up in a dysfunctional family can turn into sparring cats and dogs with teeth bared and claws dug in flesh, at Thanksgiving dinner.

 Why Their Stocking Full of Coal

As if COVID has not made the holidays hard enough for family gatherings, the ordinary

aging processes are made far tougher when a family has a history of dysfunction. and the worst occasions happen with a dysfunctional family on holidays Aging professionals, like geriatric care managers, have their greatest challenges in working with these “difficult” families.

Dysfunctional families are not able to organize themselves

They effectively face gut-wrenching eldercare challenges and crises. These families are under more stress as they move from long-established roles into uncharted territory. the dysfunctional family on holidays like Thanksgiving can face an emotional detonation then an explosion with siblings laying into each other not the turkey.

 Why Cut-OFF Ruins Holidays

The dysfunctional family on Thanksgiving faces shunning or cutoff. What if adult kids “ cut off” their Dad years ago and now he had a severe stroke- what do they do?? Someone has to take over Mom or Dad’s care and these dysfunctional midlife adult kids are heavy ambivalent or just don’t want to do it.  They are caught between “ I love you” and “ I hate you” and it only takes a few drinks and snarky remarks to start a fracas.

 

Now that the holidays are soon arriving – they have the same attitude about attending the family Thanksgiving dinner.

 

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