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10 Do’s and Don’ts of Doing the Dysfunctional Family Inquiry Post Holidays

December 28, 2020

More than half of the aging families who call you inquiring about services after the holidays will be dysfunctional families. The great majority of calls will come from adult children. If you want to make the sale during the inquiry you have to know how to handle these dysfunctional family members on the phone and give them enough trust in you to sign your contract and give you a deposit for your services.

  1. Do Be Objective
  2. Do Use Active Listening
  3. Do Give them Hope you can solve their family problem
  4. Do a two-part inquiry and have the problem defined in the first part done by a skilled administrative Assistant?
  5. Do study the problem before you do the second call and have exactly how you would solve the problem ready in a planned elevator speech
  6. Do a complimentary 30-minute consultation
  7. Do not give away the store but outline how you are an expert at solving the problems (moving, keeping at home, Alzheimer’s wandering and a bare outline of your solution
  8. Do not criticize
  9. Do not blame,
  10. Do not take sides if several family members points of view and expressed them

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5 Vital Clinical Tools to Help Aging Dysfunctional Families-Post Horrid Holidays-

             Thursday, January 21, 2021.  

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  Give frantic adult children hope when they desperately call after the holiday  

 Join me and learn how to come to the rescue of concierge dysfunctional families who found coal in their stocking.      

Learn how to!

  • Understand the Dysfunctional Aging Family System you must enter to get care for elders
  • Understand 11 Warning Signs You Are Working with Dysfunctional Family
  • Master Vital Clinical Tools, you to solve client problems
  • Take Six Steps Professional Must Take to Work with These Difficult Families
  • Get care for aging family members when the dysfunctional family members resist

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Find out more in Emily Saltz and Lynn Hackstaff’s chapter Family Conflicts, Dependence and Mutuality: Care Management and the Dysfunctional Family. Handbook of Geriatric Care Management 4th edition.Jones and Bartlett 

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The Ice Storm Cometh Again This Thanksgiving For Aging Parents

November 22, 2020

The Ice Storm is Coming

 Kids who grew up in the ’70s will soon have Thanksgiving with their 70 or 80-year-old aging parents. Will they recall the ” Ice Storm”?

In the film, it is Thanksgiving weekend in the early 70″s and a boyish Tobey Mc Guire returns home from prep school to a Thanksgiving feast that his angry sister starts with this prayer.

” Dear Lord, thank you for this Thanksgiving holiday. And for all the material possessions we have and enjoy. And for letting us white people kill all the Indians and steal their tribal lands. And stuff us like pigs, even though children in Asia are being napalmed.”

 The Dysfunctional Family’s 70″s Season of Hell

So we begin the descent down the cusp of the 1970s as the nearly normal family shapeshifts into dysfunctional in Ang Lee’s brilliant film The Ice Storm 

Lee’s Thanksgiving classic is the perfect reflection of some family’s plunge into the early 70’s season of hell.

If you’re in your 50’s or 60″s and grew up with parents who went haywire through 70’s social change, you will remember the ice storm.

 Divorce imploded the family, as we knew it. If you were a parent then you may recall,  Key Parties, or Nixon Resigning,   Deep Throat, or hear David Bowie who did the soundtrack to the film.

Some Parents of the ’70s Walked on the Wild Side With Open Marriage

With Lou Reed, you can loop back to his fabulous song that spins the period Walk on the Wild Side and maybe recall the template for it the entire era the -book, Open Marriage.  

 

Children of this 70’s social tumult may now share another Thanksgiving with aging parents who put them through hell. What will they do when they find they have to care for those same parents who did not care for them?

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  • How to sell services to the desperate Aging Family during the holiday surge
  • How to give hope to frantic children who call when their aging parent struggling with Loneliness and isolation on the holidays
  • How to help the Aging Family make holiday visits remotely or safely in person
  • How to counsel the Aging Family to track aging decline &Twindemic risk in loved ones
  • How to work with both dysfunctional and long-distance families who call during the holidays
  • How to use GCM tools to contain Holiday chaos
  • How to use financial forecasting to prepare for business growth during the holidays

Sidestep the Many Care Managers Who Do not know how to work with Dysfunctional family or do COVID Coaching of Aging Families so the client chooses you

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New Free Webinar-5 Steps Close the Sale on Covid-19 Products

June 15, 2020

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Conquer Care Management Sales- 5 Steps Close the Sale on COVID-19Products

Sales have severely declined during  COVID_19. Learn how to increase your, clients, through all your products but especially new Covid-19 and telehealth. Sell Successfully Covid-19 products and any GCM product in a 2-part intake. Closing the sale means the client signing your contract and giving you a deposit. Most care managers are untrained and terrified of this process. They are more terrified of going out of business with COVID 19

Learn the 5 steps to make and close a care management sale 

Get that contract signed, get a deposit, grow your business, bolster cash flow, make payroll, and stop you from being one of the 50% of new US businesses that fail after five years.

When?

Date Tuesday, June 23

Time 2:00 PM -3:30 PM Pacific Coast Time  

You will Learn

What are Covid-19 GCM Services you can offer

How to make the sale in the inquiry call -with a complimentary consultation

How to ” Identify needs using client” challenge questions” to find the problem you need to solve to make the sale

How to present your offer by selling solutions to the problem with a mini care plan

How to manage objections if the caller has concerns about price or product

 How to close the sale with non-aggressive closing questions to have your contract signed, get a deposit, and grow your business with a new client

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Do You Give Away the Store When you a Care Management an Intake?

May 29, 2020

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Do You Make This Mistake ?

 

Do you make this mistake with a client inquiry? When you get a request for and intake, over the phone, do you then drive to the client’s home to do the intake- without a deposit and contract? What can happen when you do this.

Aging Life care manager Sally Sunshine received an inquiry call and drove an hour to see the client. After spending two hours explaining her services, doing a geriatric assessment then asking for a deposit and signed contract the older gentleman said he could not afford her services and would not sign the contract at that time. The Aging Life care manager came up empty-handed after hours of driving, doing a 2 hours geriatric assessment with no new case, contract or deposit for all her time and expert effort. 

Stop Traveling 3 hours & Get No Contract

How do you avoid traveling to an hour to do an intake- spending 2 hours doing an initial assessment and getting no contract or deposit as the client tells you he/she cannot afford you.

Get Contract Signed in Two Phone Calls

You do the inquiry over two phone calls first one offering a free complimentary consultation, and then making the sale and asking for the contract and the deposit in the second call. You use Adobe and Pay Pal to get the deposit and contract within hours. You do not drive to the client’s home without getting a signed contract deposit – first.

 

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Conquer Care Management Sales- 5 Steps Close the Sale

 

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  • How to close the sale, get the contract signed with a 2 part intake over the phone Unknown-1.png
  • How to ” Identify needs using client” challenge questions” to find the problem you need to solve to make the sale
  • How to present your offer by selling solutions to the problem with a mini care plan
  • How to manage objections if the caller has concerns about price or product
  •  How to close the sale with non-aggressive closing questions to have your contract signed, get a deposit, and grow your business with a new client

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5 Things Geriatric Care Managers and Concierge Physicians have in Common & and How Do you Market to Them

May 18, 2020

 

What Do you Have in Common with a Concierge Physician

Concierge Physicians and geriatric care managers have much in common

They both serve must serve the top 10% in the US. because of Income equality

Geriatric care management and long term care are not covered by Medicare, so the top 10% can only afford private geriatric care management.

Medicare rates for the physician are so low, especially Geriatricians,(who are the lowest paid that they disappearing), is one of the reasons physicians have fled to a concierge practice. This allows them to actually see a client for more than 10 minutes and make housecalls where they can actually observe the most about the patient’s ability to care for themselves.

Both in Business, Serving the Elderly & Wealthy taking health care into the world of Profit.

The third commonality is Concierge Physicians and geriatric care managers both make house calls have small practices and spend time with a patient like an old fashioned doctor. More important they both know that you see the most about the functional ability of the client/patient in their home not a brief office visit

Small CASE Loads a big Similarity

The fourth similarity is the caseload. Concierge Physician has an average caseload of 50, while the average internist has 2500 patients. The average GCM carries a caseload of 25-35. But even that may be too high when serving highly entitled concierge clients. Wealthy clients can demand boatloads of attention, have more family friction between adult siblings and the older parent-based on too much money, not enough love, and no skills passed on to nurture when the parent needs care. This constant bickering or worse cut off and often elder physical and fiscal abuse siphons lots of hours of the GCM’ s time to get the care that the older client needs. So large GCM caseloads among the uber-wealthy are almost impossible.

NO WAIT TIME TO SEE GCM OR CONCIERGE PHYSICIANS

The fifth kindred feature between the GCM and concierge physicians is “wait time”. Wait time to see your doctor in the US can be a very long time. According to the New York Times”A survey released in March by Merritt Hawkins, a Dallas medical consulting and recruiting firm, found it takes 29 days on average to secure an appointment with a family care physician, up from 19.5 days in 2014. For some specialties, the delays are similarly long, with a 32-day wait to see a dermatologist and a 21-day delay at the typical cardiologist’s office. But Concierge Physicians get back to their patient’s right away because of the small caseloads and the personalized one to one care they represent. Care managers, who offer gold standard care, generally get out to see new clients within a day. Both professionals go by ” Ask and Ye Shall Receive”.

BOTH TREATING COVID-19’s Hand of Death Reaching for Seniors

During the coronavirus both doctors and care managers, see their clients/ patients the largest target of the deadly virus, dying in deadly droves, especially in

nursing homes and are themselves overwhelmed by the stress of not being able to save or even see their caseload.

So when you market the Concierge Physicians, what benefits to do you offer that will allow her or him to refer to you.

We will use the “So What” that show benefits to any profession

1) You serve the same upper 10% with the same 1-1 hands-on excellent care  “So What” you can support the physician’s patient without training

2) You do facilitation with dysfunctional families ( often in these patient caseloads) “So What”  You will  use your skills to get families to agree on care for the older person so concierge physicians  will not have to deal with these difficult barriers to care

3)You will manage adult siblings who often disrupt older parent care because of ” Mom Loved You Best” squabbles “So What” so the Concierge physician can give the medical care the parent needs without hiring a social worker or trying to be one.

4)You can counsel families through technology through the fears of COVID1- and strategies to help clients cope with the choices they may have in the epidemic so what so the mental health breakdown of the aging family can address.


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Conquer Care Management Sales- 5 Steps Close the Sale on COVID-19Products

 

Sales have severely declined in COVID_19, geriatric care management is not deemed essential business. Learn how to increase your, clients, through all your products but

especially the new Covid-19 and telehealth. Sell Successfully this and any GCM product in a 2-part intake. Closing the sale means the client signing your contract and giving you a deposit. Most care managers are untrained and terrified of this process. They are more terrified of going out of business with COVID 19

Learn the 5 steps to make and close a care management sale to get that contract signed, get a deposit, grow your business, bolster cash flow, make payroll, and stop you from being one of the 50% of new US businesses that fail after five years.

When?

Date Tuesday, June 23

Time 2:00 PM -3:30 PM

You will Learn

What are Covid-19 GCM Services you can offer

How to make the sale in the inquiry call -with a complimentary consultation

How to ” Identify needs using client” challenge questions” to find the problem you need to solve to make the sale

How to present your offer by selling solutions to the problem with a mini care plan

How to manage objections if the caller has concerns about price or product

 How to close the sale with non-aggressive closing questions to have your contract signed, get a deposit, and grow your business with a new client

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