Are you alienated from your midlife sibling? Especially in midlife, when you may need to face a parent care emergency- you need your siblings to form a team. That sibling team can begin to solve this aging parent crisis with a family meeting. If there is a cut off among siblings. that can use a geriatric care manager http://www.caremanager.org/ to reform that sibling team and solve the parent care crisis or problem. A geriatric care manager coaching your sibling team can best solve an aging parent dilemma, as I lay out in my book, Handbook of Geriatric Care Management, Jones and Bartlett. In the meantime check out this you tube video from my Mom Loves You Best You Tube Channel to help you figure out- do you have a sibling I Hate You Story.